Come to part III...
Chances...we alwaz questioning with others...even to yourself...sometime u don't want to think about it..
Do we have a chance to speak out, give ideas, getting the job after interview (what do u think vivian...)
to win something (i alwaz think that i can win...selalunya gagal la jua) and do we have a chance to prove to someone that we too can do it... (for this one, me alwaz not get even one chance)
But in kawen life, your chances is different (dunno yet coz belom kawen gik) coz u share our life wif someone (ur couple la ia)....
Orais...let me put it tis way...ARGUMENT (quarrel, fight, disagreement, dispute)
3 stages:
Dating Stage -> Still got chances to argue something...maybe on place for ngedate...
Engagement Stage -> Down to 20% coz takut cincin dipulangkan balik...hehehehe
Marriage Period -> Hah...di sini la dia terjadi...peluang lelaki hancus terus...klu bole -20%...
can't argue anymore...hhmmmm....
Betol ka sik tok...aku pun sik tau...tp asa2 nya Chel mesti setuju teori ke-3 tok nak...(bole nampak kesenyuman nya)
Hani & Vivian setuju jua dgn teori tok?? hehehehe...renung2 kan lah...
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i am smiling ear to ear upon reading the 3rd theory..correction..tetak bsungguh2 aku bc ia..
aaa.part 1 ku sokong pendapatan enjenio tok. part 2 & 3 berik masa ku menganalisa lok. mwahahaha
A chances for man winning the argument..?
For me..at dating stage..it's depend on how dominant the man role in that relationship..until married stage. Sometimes, man have to be patient to make everything comes perfect. such as..taknak cincan tunang kena hantar balik!!!
My personal opinion. Man! Fight for your right! If u think u r right..Fight for it..Dont wait until ur superior power as a leader in family collapse with tear. Man have Pride!
refer to question :Do we have a chance to speak out, give ideas?
~the best way to improve our relationship is 'communication'.. AS a man, give women a chances to speak "meluahkan perasaan"..Wp kdg2 tidak masuk akal bagi lelaki. Biarkan..bila dah ok..reda..lelaki boleh ingat kembali apa yang tidak kena sepanjang perhubungan..
Eh..panjang lebar pulak ceramah..
kelak sambung gik pok..
Chel: aku dah agak dah..mesti tetak bena nya...wait for the nex lesson..hehehe
Hani: manah anti nuan setuju pendapatan yg 1st nya...jampat gik ngaga analisis nya..hehehe
Vivian: Yup...I'll fight for pride, only if im right...not only communicate, respect too take count...sambung gik...really like ur comment..hehehe
am waiting 4d nex lesson
Bila kaunselor berbicara bah..
Psychologist wannabe katakan...
Wihah : sometimes we have to think more positive about argument. Melalui ya la kita lebih memahami antara satu sama lain..kelebihan dan kekurangan kita..Kita Membina Keserasian.. nama dah membina nak? so perlu ada usaha..
lps argument...then have sex...hehehe
sapa kenjar atas ya ohh.?!
personally, i dont quite agree wif de 3rd theory. tapi x boleh nk mdh apa juak cos i haven't get thru' it myself.
but i do observe other. i heard dis & dat. and i came to a conclusion dat women don't necessarily win de argument! cos not all women r irrational. some stil consider wut their partner says. plus, men shud be firm too!
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